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					<description><![CDATA[Speaking from my own experience of teaching in an elementary school, there are children who are painfully shy to the point where it causes them anxiety. To make that child (even as a 2 year old) say thank you at the dinner table of someone else&#039;s home could cause anxiety. I have a sister who was painfully shy as a child and therefore I can, in fact (quoting you in the very first paragraph) say that such children are not rude. And there is nothing wrong with laying a head on Mommy&#039;s shoulder (their comfort). We taught our children to say thank you and such but I truly understand not all children are like my own.. or like yours. Please consider that your children grew up around many, many people for their growing up years and that cerrainy makes a difference. Above anything else, we studied Romans 14 last night which came to mind as I read your post. Let&#039;s follow Jesus&#039;s teachings on judging others and be careful in how we perceive others! ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Speaking from my own experience of teaching in an elementary school, there are children who are painfully shy to the point where it causes them anxiety. To make that child (even as a 2 year old) say thank you at the dinner table of someone else&#39;s home could cause anxiety. I have a sister who was painfully shy as a child and therefore I can, in fact (quoting you in the very first paragraph) say that such children are not rude. And there is nothing wrong with laying a head on Mommy&#39;s shoulder (their comfort). We taught our children to say thank you and such but I truly understand not all children are like my own.. or like yours. Please consider that your children grew up around many, many people for their growing up years and that cerrainy makes a difference. Above anything else, we studied Romans 14 last night which came to mind as I read your post. Let&#39;s follow Jesus&#39;s teachings on judging others and be careful in how we perceive others! </p>
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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://bontragerfamilysingers.com/shy-children-part-4-in-motherhood-series#comment-1816&quot;&gt;Kanadiangirl&lt;/a&gt;.

Children are to be brought up in the ways of the Lord.  This means that we understand that they are children and need to be taught the ways of the Lord.  They are not adults so when a two year old does not say hi we should not put adult like thinking upon them like what was suggested in your article, &#039;That 2 year old who won&#039;t say &#034;thank-you&#034; to his hostess for a delicious meal is, in fact, being rather self-centered.  He is thinking of his own feelings rather than the feelings of someone who may have spent hours or all day preparing for her guests so that they could enjoy a meal together.&#039;  If you really thought that a two year old was capable of this kind of reasoning then the consequence would be accordingly to this understanding but because we know that they are not capable of this reasoning we politely say to our hostess, sorry we are working on this.  Foolish judging of a young child&#039;s heart may lead to harsh and unreasonable parenting.

I too had a shy child and we role played etc...  He is now ten years old and is a happy social child.  I would also like to mention that until my son is saved he is only practicing social graces while knowing christian values. Being personally motivated by love for our Heavenly Father and His glory only comes at the point of salvation which is obviously the prayer of every believing parent.  

C.Joyce         ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://bontragerfamilysingers.com/shy-children-part-4-in-motherhood-series#comment-1816">Kanadiangirl</a>.</p>
<p>Children are to be brought up in the ways of the Lord.  This means that we understand that they are children and need to be taught the ways of the Lord.  They are not adults so when a two year old does not say hi we should not put adult like thinking upon them like what was suggested in your article, &#39;That 2 year old who won&#39;t say &quot;thank-you&quot; to his hostess for a delicious meal is, in fact, being rather self-centered.  He is thinking of his own feelings rather than the feelings of someone who may have spent hours or all day preparing for her guests so that they could enjoy a meal together.&#39;  If you really thought that a two year old was capable of this kind of reasoning then the consequence would be accordingly to this understanding but because we know that they are not capable of this reasoning we politely say to our hostess, sorry we are working on this.  Foolish judging of a young child&#39;s heart may lead to harsh and unreasonable parenting.</p>
<p>I too had a shy child and we role played etc&#8230;  He is now ten years old and is a happy social child.  I would also like to mention that until my son is saved he is only practicing social graces while knowing christian values. Being personally motivated by love for our Heavenly Father and His glory only comes at the point of salvation which is obviously the prayer of every believing parent.  </p>
<p>C.Joyce         </p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Dec 2016 16:37:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thank you for this post. However, more than what you said here, what makes the strongest impression on me is having met your children. Though they only know me as an acquaintance or distant friend, each of them down to the youngest greets me like they think I am important, and I leave the conversation feeling cared for. Thank you for taking the time to train your children this way. I certainly hope I can do as good of a job teaching my son those lessons once he can talk!

~Elissa M]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for this post. However, more than what you said here, what makes the strongest impression on me is having met your children. Though they only know me as an acquaintance or distant friend, each of them down to the youngest greets me like they think I am important, and I leave the conversation feeling cared for. Thank you for taking the time to train your children this way. I certainly hope I can do as good of a job teaching my son those lessons once he can talk!</p>
<p>~Elissa M</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thank you for your post. As a young woman, I do appreciate your thoughts on this, both as applying to my peers and for the future day of motherhood. Recently, I might have disagreed with you in these opinions, but I have since met a couple families who&#039;s children were not taught to mature out of their shyness and have left them as young adults with very little experience in social etiquette or the ability to carry a conversation with anyone but close friends or family. It has been difficult to identify why they were this way, but I had come to the conclusion on my own that they were shy growing up and just weren&#039;t taught those skills you mentioned. They are wonderful families and we have gotten to know them well, but it did take quite some time to be acquainted and for awkwardness to wear off. I tell this example only as a means of agreeing and concurring with you in my own personal experience. Thank you for you thoughts and for being so passionate about sharing the Gospel through discipleship!! God Bless!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for your post. As a young woman, I do appreciate your thoughts on this, both as applying to my peers and for the future day of motherhood. Recently, I might have disagreed with you in these opinions, but I have since met a couple families who&#39;s children were not taught to mature out of their shyness and have left them as young adults with very little experience in social etiquette or the ability to carry a conversation with anyone but close friends or family. It has been difficult to identify why they were this way, but I had come to the conclusion on my own that they were shy growing up and just weren&#39;t taught those skills you mentioned. They are wonderful families and we have gotten to know them well, but it did take quite some time to be acquainted and for awkwardness to wear off. I tell this example only as a means of agreeing and concurring with you in my own personal experience. Thank you for you thoughts and for being so passionate about sharing the Gospel through discipleship!! God Bless!</p>
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